Planning a bachelorette party? Oh honey, you’ve come to the right place! I’ve been to more bachelorette parties than I care to count (and trust me, some were… memorable for all the wrong reasons).
Whether you’re the bride-to-be or the maid of honor frantically googling “bachelorette party ideas” at 2 AM, I’ve got your back with 21 epic ideas that’ll have everyone talking about this party for years to come.
Let’s skip the basic bar crawl and dive into some seriously fun territory, shall we?
Wine Tasting Adventure
Image Prompt: A group of elegantly dressed women in flowing sundresses and sun hats, laughing and toasting with wine glasses at a picturesque vineyard during golden hour, with rolling hills and grape vines in the background, soft natural lighting creating a warm, luxurious atmosphere.
There’s something magical about sipping wine while pretending to know the difference between “earthy notes” and “hints of oak.” I’ve done this twice, and honestly? It’s pure bliss. Wine tasting combines sophistication with the perfect amount of tipsy giggles.
How to Do It:
• Book a vineyard tour that includes transportation (trust me on this one)
• Arrange for a designated driver or hire a party bus
• Pack some light snacks and plenty of water
• Coordinate matching outfits for those Instagram-worthy shots
• Consider a wine blending experience where you create your own bottle
For more deep topics to talk about during those quieter vineyard moments, check out our conversation starters guide.
Spa Day Extravaganza
Image Prompt: A serene spa setting with women in fluffy white robes and cucumber eye masks, lounging in a modern wellness center with soft lighting, eucalyptus decorations, massage tables, and champagne glasses nearby, creating a peaceful and luxurious atmosphere.
Because nothing says “pre-wedding relaxation” like getting pampered with your girls. I’m talking full-service spa day with massages, facials, and maybe some champagne (because why not?).
How to Do It:
• Book a group package at a luxury spa resort
• Arrange for mobile spa services to come to your Airbnb
• Include manicures, pedicures, and hair styling
• Add champagne and healthy snacks to the package
• Consider couples massages if the group is large
Cooking Class Chaos
Image Prompt: A bright, modern kitchen with women wearing matching aprons over cute outfits, flour dusting their hands and faces, laughing while attempting to make pasta or decorating cupcakes, with colorful ingredients scattered on marble countertops and natural light streaming through large windows.
Ever tried making pasta from scratch while slightly tipsy? It’s hilarious. Cooking classes are perfect for the bride who loves food and doesn’t mind getting a little messy with her squad.
How to Do It:
• Book a private cooking class with a professional chef
• Choose cuisine that matches the bride’s preferences
• Bring your own aprons with personalized messages
• Document the disasters—I mean, culinary creations
• End with a group dinner featuring your masterpieces
Beach House Getaway
Image Prompt: A stunning beach house deck at sunset with women in colorful sundresses and swimwear, fairy lights strung overhead, ocean views in the background, tropical drinks in hand, and a relaxed bohemian atmosphere with flowing fabrics and natural textures.
Nothing beats a beach house weekend with your favorite people. Sand between your toes, endless mimosas, and zero responsibilities? Sign me up! This is perfect for the bride who wants to relax and reconnect with her girls.
How to Do It:
• Rent a beach house with enough bedrooms for everyone
• Plan activities like paddleboarding or beach volleyball
• Stock up on sunscreen, floaties, and beach games
• Arrange for a private chef or catering service
• Create a playlist of the bride’s favorite songs
Glamping Adventure
Image Prompt: Luxurious glamping tents with bohemian decor, string lights, and comfortable bedding, surrounded by nature, with women in casual chic outfits sitting around a campfire with s’mores and wine, creating a cozy outdoor atmosphere under starry skies.
For the bride who loves nature but also loves her creature comforts, glamping is the perfect compromise. You get the outdoor experience without sacrificing your blow-out 🙂
How to Do It:
• Book a glamping site with luxury amenities
• Plan outdoor activities like hiking or kayaking
• Bring gourmet camping food and wine
• Pack comfortable outdoor clothing and bug spray
• Arrange for a campfire and s’mores supplies
If you’re looking for some interesting topics to talk about around the campfire, we’ve got you covered.
Private Chef Experience
Image Prompt: An elegant dining room with a long table set for a group, a professional chef in white uniform preparing gourmet dishes in an open kitchen, women dressed in sophisticated attire enjoying wine and conversation, with beautiful plating and ambient lighting creating an upscale restaurant atmosphere.
Want to feel like celebrities for a night? Hire a private chef to cook an amazing meal while you and your girls sip wine and gossip. It’s luxurious without the hassle of restaurant reservations.
How to Do It:
• Research local private chefs and read reviews
• Discuss dietary restrictions and preferences in advance
• Set up a beautiful dining space with proper lighting
• Provide wine pairings for each course
• Consider a cooking demonstration as entertainment
Karaoke Night Madness
Image Prompt: A vibrant karaoke lounge with neon lights, disco balls, and plush seating, showing women in sparkly outfits holding microphones and singing enthusiastically, with colorful lighting effects and a fun, energetic party atmosphere.
Sometimes you just need to belt out “I Will Survive” with your girls. Karaoke nights are pure gold for creating those “remember when” moments that’ll have you laughing for years.
How to Do It:
• Book a private karaoke room for the night
• Create a playlist of the bride’s favorite songs
• Bring props like feather boas and sunglasses
• Order finger foods and cocktails to share
• Record videos (with permission) for memories
Art and Sip Class
Image Prompt: A bright art studio with easels set up in a circle, women in casual clothes with paint-splattered aprons, laughing while painting canvases, with art supplies scattered around, wine glasses nearby, and natural light creating a creative, relaxed atmosphere.
Channel your inner Picasso while sipping wine. Art classes are surprisingly therapeutic, and honestly, the worse you are at painting, the funnier it gets. Plus, everyone goes home with a masterpiece (or at least something colorful).
How to Do It:
• Book a private paint and sip session
• Choose a painting that matches the bride’s style
• Bring your own wine or check if it’s BYOB
• Wear clothes you don’t mind getting paint on
• Consider having everyone paint the same scene for a cohesive memory
Rooftop Party Vibes
Image Prompt: A sophisticated rooftop terrace with city skyline views at twilight, women in elegant cocktail dresses mingling with champagne flutes, string lights overhead, comfortable lounge seating, and a chic urban atmosphere with sunset colors painting the sky.
There’s something about being up high that makes everything feel more special. Rooftop parties offer amazing views and that “we’re on top of the world” feeling that’s perfect for celebrating.
How to Do It:
• Rent a rooftop venue or find a rooftop bar
• Check weather conditions and have a backup plan
• Arrange for passed appetizers and signature cocktails
• Consider the dress code for windy conditions
• Book during sunset for the most Instagram-worthy shots
Boat Day Bliss
Image Prompt: A luxurious yacht on crystal blue water with women in stylish swimwear and cover-ups, champagne bottles on ice, sun loungers, and a captain at the helm, with coastal scenery in the background and bright sunny weather creating a glamorous nautical scene.
Nothing says “living our best life” like a day on the water with your squad. Whether it’s a yacht, pontoon boat, or sailboat, water activities always create the best memories.
How to Do It:
• Charter a boat with a licensed captain
• Bring plenty of sunscreen and water
• Pack a cooler with snacks and drinks
• Plan water activities like swimming or paddleboarding
• Consider seasickness remedies for sensitive stomachs
For some questions to ask your best friends while lounging on deck, check out our ultimate friendship question guide.
Brunch and Bubbles
Image Prompt: An elegant brunch setting with a beautifully decorated table featuring fresh flowers, champagne flutes filled with mimosas, colorful brunch dishes, women in chic brunch attire laughing and toasting, with natural light streaming through large windows creating a bright, cheerful atmosphere.
Brunch is basically an excuse to drink before noon, and I’m here for it. Add some bottomless mimosas and your favorite girls, and you’ve got the perfect low-key celebration.
How to Do It:
• Make reservations at a trendy brunch spot
• Arrange for a private dining room if possible
• Create a group chat for coordinating outfits
• Consider a brunch crawl hitting multiple spots
• Bring small gifts or party favors for everyone
Dance Class Fun
Image Prompt: A bright dance studio with mirrors and wooden floors, women in comfortable workout clothes learning choreography, with an instructor demonstrating moves, everyone laughing and having fun, with good lighting and an energetic, supportive atmosphere.
Learn some new moves with your girls! Whether it’s salsa, hip-hop, or even pole dancing (don’t knock it ’til you try it), dance classes are hilarious and surprisingly empowering.
How to Do It:
• Book a private group lesson with a qualified instructor
• Choose a dance style that matches the group’s comfort level
• Wear comfortable shoes and stretchy clothing
• Bring water bottles and towels
• Consider recording the final performance
Themed Costume Party
Image Prompt: A fun party space with women in creative themed costumes – perhaps 80s attire, superhero outfits, or vintage glamour – with decorations matching the theme, colorful lighting, and everyone posing playfully for photos, creating a festive and entertaining atmosphere.
Pick a theme and go all out! Whether it’s ’80s night, superhero party, or throwback to your college days, themed parties always bring out everyone’s fun side.
How to Do It:
• Choose a theme that resonates with the bride
• Send out costume guidelines well in advance
• Decorate the venue to match the theme
• Plan themed activities and music
• Have a costume contest with fun prizes
Scavenger Hunt Adventure
Image Prompt: Groups of women in casual outfits holding clipboards and phones, laughing while searching for clues around a vibrant city setting, with urban backgrounds, shops, and landmarks visible, creating an active, adventurous atmosphere during daytime.
Turn your bachelorette party into a city-wide adventure! Scavenger hunts are perfect for exploring new places while bonding with your crew.
How to Do It:
• Create clues related to the bride’s interests and history
• Include photo challenges and silly tasks
• Provide small prizes for completed challenges
• End at a fun location like a rooftop bar
• Consider using a scavenger hunt app for convenience
Axe Throwing Excitement
Image Prompt: An indoor axe throwing venue with wooden targets, women in casual clothes learning proper throwing technique from an instructor, safety equipment visible, with industrial-style lighting and a fun, slightly edgy atmosphere that combines safety with excitement.
Hear me out—axe throwing is surprisingly therapeutic and ridiculously fun. It’s perfect for releasing any pre-wedding stress while trying something totally new.
How to Do It:
• Book a session at a reputable axe throwing venue
• Follow all safety instructions carefully
• Wear closed-toe shoes and comfortable clothing
• Start with basic techniques before competing
• Celebrate hits with mini victories and lots of cheering
Vintage Tea Party
Image Prompt: An elegant vintage tea party setup with fine china, tiered serving stands with pastries, women in floral dresses and sun hats, lace tablecloths, fresh flowers, and a garden or conservatory setting with soft, romantic lighting creating a refined, timeless atmosphere.
For the bride who loves elegance and tradition, a vintage tea party offers sophistication with a touch of whimsy. Think finger sandwiches, fancy hats, and feeling like proper ladies.
How to Do It:
• Find a venue with vintage charm or create the setting yourself
• Arrange for proper tea service with multiple varieties
• Include traditional finger foods and pastries
• Encourage guests to wear vintage-inspired outfits
• Add activities like hat decorating or vintage photo booth
Adventure Sports Day
Image Prompt: An outdoor adventure setting with women in athletic wear and safety gear, participating in activities like zip-lining or rock climbing, with natural landscapes in the background, showing excitement and camaraderie while staying safe and having fun.
For the adrenaline-junkie bride, nothing beats an adventure sports day. Zip-lining, rock climbing, or bungee jumping—whatever gets your heart racing and creates unforgettable memories.
How to Do It:
• Research reputable adventure companies with good safety records
• Consider everyone’s fitness levels and comfort zones
• Book activities that allow for different skill levels
• Bring appropriate clothing and gear
• Have professional photographers capture the action
Casino Night Glamour
Image Prompt: A sophisticated casino setting with women in elegant evening wear playing poker or blackjack, casino chips and cards on felt tables, ambient lighting, and a glamorous atmosphere reminiscent of a high-end Las Vegas venue.
Channel your inner James Bond for a night of cards, cocktails, and feeling fabulous. Casino nights offer excitement without the pressure of real gambling.
How to Do It:
• Book a private casino night with professional dealers
• Rent casino equipment for a house party version
• Provide play money or chips for games
• Create signature cocktails and elegant appetizers
• Consider prizes for the biggest winners
Outdoor Movie Night
Image Prompt: A cozy outdoor movie setup with a large screen, comfortable seating with blankets and pillows, string lights overhead, women in casual loungewear with popcorn and drinks, creating a relaxed, intimate atmosphere under the stars.
Sometimes the best nights are the simplest ones. Set up an outdoor movie screening with all the bride’s favorite films, complete with blankets, snacks, and stargazing.
How to Do It:
• Rent or set up a projector and screen
• Create a cozy seating area with blankets and pillows
• Prepare movie theater snacks and themed cocktails
• Choose films that hold special meaning for the bride
• Have backup plans for weather changes
If you need topics to talk about with your crush during those quiet movie moments, we’ve got conversation starters that work.
Food Tour Expedition
Image Prompt: A bustling food market or street with diverse food vendors, women sampling various cuisines and delicacies, carrying small tasting portions, with vibrant colors of different foods and cultural settings, creating an exciting culinary adventure atmosphere.
Eat your way through the city! Food tours are perfect for the bride who’s a total foodie and loves trying new cuisines. Plus, you’ll discover hidden gems you never knew existed.
How to Do It:
• Book a guided food tour or create your own route
• Research restaurants and food trucks in advance
• Pace yourselves with small portions at each stop
• Bring comfortable walking shoes
• Consider dietary restrictions and preferences
Poolside Paradise
Image Prompt: A luxurious pool area with women in stylish swimwear and sunglasses, lounging on colorful floaties, tropical drinks with umbrellas, palm trees and cabanas in the background, creating a resort-like atmosphere with bright, summery vibes.
Sometimes you just want to float around in a pool with your girls, drinks in hand, without a care in the world. Pool parties are perfect for those “let’s just chill and catch up” vibes.
How to Do It:
• Rent a house with a pool or book a pool party venue
• Stock up on pool floaties and games
• Prepare poolside snacks and frozen cocktails
• Bring plenty of sunscreen and towels
• Create a summer playlist for the perfect ambiance
Making Memories That Last
Look, I’ve been to my share of bachelorette parties—some amazing, some… well, let’s just say they were learning experiences. The best ones aren’t necessarily the most expensive or elaborate; they’re the ones where everyone feels included, the bride feels celebrated, and you create those stories you’ll be telling at her 10-year anniversary party.
The key to a killer bachelorette party? Know your bride. Is she a wine-and-Netflix girl or a jump-out-of-a-plane adventure seeker? Plan accordingly, keep the group size manageable, and always have a backup plan (trust me on this one).
Remember, this isn’t just about the party—it’s about celebrating your friend’s next chapter while honoring the friendships that got you all here. Whether you choose a quiet spa day or an epic weekend getaway, the most important thing is making sure everyone feels the love. Now go plan something amazing! 🎉